Like everything, marriages too age. With time you not only lose your physical charm, but also start getting used to each other. And then, it happens. You start looking for happiness outside your marriage. While women start losing themselves, men get bored. This is one of the many reasons why fights find a place in marriage. Whether you no longer communicate effectively, or are a victim of infidelity; whether you cannot give each other quality time; have children issues; even if you are undergoing a trial separation, chances are that without professional help and expert’s guidance you are most likely to fail. Most couples, or in most cases a single partner, often relies only on herself to solve the marital conflict and in 90 percent cases, she fails. Worse still, the matters get further out of control.
In your attempt to bring back lost love, you would have tried or will try several options, on your own, often thinking who would know your situation and your partners better? And believe it or not, I too tried all possible options that were advised by friends or experienced relatives. In such cases we all tend to think alike. We all feel like we are the only ones who are going through tough times and no one beyond us can feel the pain and agony we are suffering. Who we keep ignoring are people like Amy Waterman, who not only have the caliber and expertise to deal with relationship problems and have the required experience you or any of your friends would always lack. Instead, relying on our close ones, who suggest solutions only in our best interest, is often not as successful. It is because no one whom we seek advice from, has ever handled or ever been a witness to more than a couple of serious cases of broken relationships.
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